Comfort Zone

Comfort Zone

So yesterday I wrote about loosening up, today I'll talk something a little harder. Leaving your comfort zone.

You'll never really know what's out there till you give it a go, take the first step. 

But before we get into all the bravery and confidence, let's talk about what causes people to get stuck in their comfort zone.

Well...firstly, it's comfortable (you don't say)

Who doesn't like being comfortable? Even I love being comfortable. Just that being comfortable around people seems better to me then being comfortable alone. So how do you solve this? Well to me there's no point forcing people out of their comfort zone. Instead, it's better to still feel good while leaving your comfort zone. So, do it slowly. Start by hanging around with a group of people, who you trust. There must be at least 1 person you like to talking to. Slowly expand that circle of friend...s. Eventually, you'll enjoy being around people and having fun. Effectively, being in your comfort zone while still enjoying yourself! :)

Secondly, Confidence in yourself. To be comfortable around people, you have to be comfortable with yourself! Your self confidence will attract people to you. Remember there's a fine line between self confidence and pride. Self confidence is being comfortable in your own skin. Pride is being cocky. You definitely should be comfortable with yourself, but always stay humble, let people want to be around you too.

Thirdly, Accepting that you can't please everyone. It's impossible pleasing everyone. You can please most people, but not everyone. Why? Different people have different mindsets. So you have to accept yourself and and accept that not everything will always go your way :)

Be confident with yourself, get out of that little corner of yours! Take the first step today :) 

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